However, despite the importance of marriage we find no mention of the wedding ceremony in the Bible. The obligations related to the Jewish wedding ceremony are discussed in the Talmud. The Mishnah states that marriage requires a marriage contract, money given to the bride and consummation.
The marriage contracts, or ketubah, were traditionally written in Aramaic that lists these responsibilities of the husband to the wife, among them the provision of food, clothing, and conjugal rights. The ketubah was also an insurance policy which includes the amount to be paid to a wife in case of divorce or upon the husband’s death.
Liberal Judaism has changed some aspects of the wedding ceremony to reflect the equal status of women and developed liturgy specifically for same sex ceremonies.
For many, the chuppah represents one of the first steps they take on their Jewish life cycle journey, and we look forward to accompanying the couple during whatever else life brings their way. If you would like to have a Liberal Jewish wedding, please contact your local rabbi or Liberal Judaism, who will be delighted to hear from you.
Please note: The law of England and Wales (but not yet in Scotland) permits marriage between two persons of either gender but stipulates that, when a couple wishes to be married under Jewish auspices, both partners must be Jewish. Liberal Judaism requires both to be members of the Liberal synagogue under the auspices of which the ceremony will be carried out.
For information on ketubot that are suitable for Liberal Judaism marriage ceremonies please contact the Montagu Centre.Click here to see our Marriage FAQ
While the law does not authorise rabbis to solemnise mixed-faith marriages (whether mixed-sex or same-sex), most are happy to perform blessings on such. Such a blessing requires a commitment from the couple to create a Jewish home and to raising any shared children as Jews.
Mixed faith blessings do not take place under a chuppah, and are different in structure and content to the Jewish marriage ceremony. To find out more about mixed faith blessings, and to discuss whether and how one might work for you contact the Liberal Judaism office or your local Liberal synagogue.Click here to see our Mixed Faith Blessings FAQ